Sex therapy that's GAY
You deserve a therapist who gets it — not one you have to educate. Harry Dixon, MA, LMHC, LPCC, LPC, CST is a certified sex therapist specializing in the unique sexual, relational, and identity needs of gay, queer, trans, and BIPOC men and couples.
A safe space to explore every part of who you are
Gay sex therapy is specialized therapy focused on the unique needs and experiences of gay, trans, and BIPOC men and couples. It recognizes the diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, and expressions within the LGBTQ+ community — and treats all of them with dignity and clinical expertise.
Harry Dixon brings both lived experience and clinical training to the work. He understands that sexuality is complex, multifaceted, and deeply personal. Whether you're navigating identity, intimacy, shame, or desire, you won't need to explain yourself before the real work begins.
His approach is rooted in sex-positive, affirming care. He honors the full spectrum of sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship structures — from monogamy to open relationships, from vanilla to kink. No topic is off-limits, no question is too sensitive.
- Fully online — attend from the comfort and privacy of your own space
- Both individual and couples sessions available
- AASECT-informed, evidence-based approaches
- No shame, no judgment — ever
Topics we address in sex therapy
Sex therapy isn't one-size-fits-all. Harry works across a broad range of concerns facing gay, queer, and BIPOC individuals and couples.
What makes this different
Queer-affirming therapy exists on a spectrum. Here's what sets our practice apart from the rest.
LGBTQ+ Affirming — Not Just "Inclusive"
Harry doesn't just accept LGBTQ+ clients — he specializes in them. You won't spend sessions educating your therapist about queer culture, community norms, or relationship structures.
Certified Sex Therapist (CST)
Harry holds the CST credential from AASECT, reflecting specialized clinical training in human sexuality at the highest level. Sex therapy requires distinct skills — and he has them.
Confidential & Non-Judgmental
Every session is conducted in a safe, HIPAA-secure, and wholly non-judgmental space. You can explore the things you've never said out loud — and that's exactly the point.
Whole-Person, Holistic Care
Sexual wellbeing doesn't exist in isolation. Harry addresses the full picture — mental health, identity, relationships, and trauma history — to support meaningful, ongoing growth.
Harry Dixon
Harry is the founder of Rainbow Connection Counseling Collective and the creator of TheGaySexTherapist.com. He brings deep expertise in LGBTQ+ mental health, sex therapy, and culturally responsive care for gay, queer, and BIPOC men and couples.
He believes that sexuality is not a problem to be fixed, but a dimension of self to be understood — with curiosity, compassion, and clinical skill. His sex-positive framework centers your lived experience and meets you exactly where you are.
Harry is licensed in California, Washington, Oregon, and New York, and offers telehealth sessions to clients across all four states.
"Sex is adult play."Esther Perel
Available via telehealth
Online sex therapy sessions from the comfort and privacy of your own space
You deserve pleasure
Take the first step toward a more fulfilling, integrated relationship with yourself and your desires. Consultations are free and completely confidential.
Harry Dixon, MA is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in California (CA LPCC #4340), a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Washington (WA LMHC #LH60684311) and New York (NY LMHC #015648), and a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oregon (OR LPC #C8199). The designation Certified Sex Therapist (CST) is a professional certification issued by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) — it is not a license issued by any state licensing board. All services are provided via telehealth and are subject to the laws and regulations of the client's state of residence. This website constitutes advertising under the California Business and Professions Code.